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I am a wife, daughter, sister, aunt, god-mother, grand-daughter, cousin, niece, and a now a MOM! I am married to my best friend, and sometimes pain in the butt husband:O) We live in New Jersey, and for the most part lead very quiet lives(very different from our single lives!) I am the mothe of a beautiful boy, Raziel Lucian Quinonez. He is definately the love of my life and I am mgrateful for each moment I get to spend with him.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

What do you want to be when you grow up?

     When I was a little girl I was asked this question, and i'm sure most people were asked as well as a child. I remeber I wanted to work with animals(stayed true to my childhood dream:O), but now that i'm older i've been thinking about things we were expected to say. We are thought to go after the money jobs, the attainable jobs, the jobs that support our families. But what about the two most important jobs that really don't get recognized? How many of us answered I want to be a MOM or a DAD? I know that being a parent is suppose to be second nature, but we never really treat parenthood like it's the most important thing. We tell our children to grow up and have jobs. We pay for the on-going schooling to get these jobs, but what about the lesson and the importance of being a parent? We give little girls dolls to take care of, but after a certain age we take those dolls away for more serious things. How many of us teach our sons about taking care of children?

    I'm not saying that we shouldn't teach them the importance of work, but we raise our children, and when they have their own children we say here yah go your a parent, without properly instilling the tools they will need. Most of stumble around, trying to figure out these weird little mini us.(we love them to death, but at first it's like they came from another planet! LOL) But I feel like we should be constantly teaching our children about parenthood, and if they choose not to have children that's o.k But if they choose this awesome job, we have given them the tools to do their very best :
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Monday, August 22, 2011

Needing something and I think its God.

Lately ive been feeling like there is something missing in my life and I think it may be God. Im not a very religious person, but I am a spiritual one. Lately ive been feeling like something is missing, and when I baptised Raziel I got the feeling like it was God. Now, I dont think God has abandoned me, but I think I might be slowly abandoning him. The emptiness I feel, just might be my Gods way of saying, 'hey, where are you going?' I truely believe in a higher power and I really feel so much more peacefull inside of a church. So, I believe some spiritual changes need to be made.

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Tuesday, August 16, 2011

The love of Spongebob :0)

Raziel loves the cartoon Spongebob Square Pants. He hears the beginning song and is instantly glued to the t.v. He even sings the song!! He is so adorable! Yesterday we bought him a huge stuffed spongebob and he was so excited! Ive never seen him act that way. Viva la Spongebob! For now, lol.
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Raziel's baptism.

Raziel was baptised on Saturday 8/13/11. It was a beautiful service and he was baptised with his cousins Aiden and J.J. The three of them looked so amazing. I couldnt be more proud.
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Friday, August 5, 2011

Returning to my blog.

I haven[t written in a very long time, and the truth is I got discouraged. I love writing my blog, especially about my son, bt I came to a point where I asked, Is anyone reading this? Am I just putting my son and myself out there for no reason? Lately i've been wanting to share more of my life, more of mommy-hood with more people. I just haven't figured out how. The truth is I really like blogging and I want to continue to learn how to make my blog AWESOME! So, I guess instead of writing this blog for others, I really need to start writing for myself.




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